The death of a pet affects everyone differently. For many people, a pet is just as important as a human loved one.
Feelings of grief—whether for a parrot or a poodle—should be respected. The most important thing you can do is listen. It’s best to:
- Give your friend time to recover from their loss. Don’t expect them to resume a normal routine right away.
- Avoid comparing your experiences with pet loss or sharing current stories about your pets.
- Expect tears as a part of grief. Comfort a friend and don’t minimize the pain.
- Listen! Don’t try to change the subject or distract your friend from memories of their pet.
- Check in with a regular phone call to boost his or her spirits.
- Send a card or other acknowledgment.
- Ask your friend how he or she would like you to help.
(article courtesy of Funeralwise, LLC; see it here)